Every person who starts to walk on the road of self-improvement will realize that there are some difficult times on the journey. I thought that nothing can ever stop me and that I’m already a free spirit and a positive thinker but by time I had to face the fact that I still have so much junk in my brain that it is shocking. If there is a big cleaning in “your house” don’t forget to move the furniture, because I promise you will find some hidden dust behind it! I was choosing the strategy not to move them so I wouldn’t see them…which is the worse you can do. Only in the last 3 years I started to look behind them to get rid of the dust. In the beginning it’s pretty painful but at the end of the day it is very much worth it! I am still working on myself and I truly believe this is a never ending story. So here I am sharing with you what I’ve learnt on the way. Feel free to add in things that you’ve learnt on the way and share with us on Facebook!
This list is the key to success and happiness in my opinion:
1) Get rid of limitations!
Limits are negative seeds in your thoughts which you can grow into giant plants. The funny thing is that they are grown by you, as you take care of them each day. They don’t really like to share the room in your head with positive thoughts or affirmations. So make sure you choose which ones you feed. It takes time to get rid of them but once they are gone you will feel lighter, healthier and happier.
2) Believe in your goals!
You’ll win only when you believe. Find your goals that you truly want to achieve. Mine is to build a huge farm where I can save lots of animals and have monthly seminars through the success of my companies. I have a clear goal and I believe in it like crazy and I believe in my companies and products which will lead me to achieving my goals.
What is your goal and how much do you believe in it? Rate it from 1 to 10.
3) Transform worry into peace!
Don’t be scared of everything around You . Your fears are playing this game with you, so try to stay calm and be relaxed to be content and successful. Use breathing, meditation, a nice massage and positive affirmations.
4) Think Love!
I am sure you’re sometimes in situations when you get upset or angry. Well, only you can handle your own frustration! Always ask the question What would love do in this situation?! It will change the way you communicate, how you behave and your whole personality into a loving, caring person people like and look up to.
5) Respect the promises you made for yourself!
Respect the relationship with yourself, which means that you need to respect the person who you are and keep your own word. For me it is one of the most difficult thing. I procrastinate the promises I make for myself.
Respecting your promises you make is the base of a trustful, loving relationship with yourself, which is key to success.
6) Don’t give up!
Don’t stop, don’t look back just keep going even if it’s difficult and you feel like you are losing so many things which were important for you. Sometimes we need to let go of things that are not serving us anymore, no matter how hard it is, because of our memories.
7) Give away free smiles!
I don’t think this needs much explanation, just look into people’s eyes and smile. Make them feel good it will make you feel even better! The knowledge of starting a positive chain-reaction is in your hand. Give it as a gift to people you meet each day. Don’ select who you give it to!
8) See beauty around you!
The more you look for beauty in others, in situations and in life the more you will find. It keeps your focus on the nice things and you will realize how wonderful people around you can be. It makes life so much more fun and so much easier. Also spend some time learning to love yourself!
You don’t have time to waste, life is beautiful, start to live the way You really want Today!
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